First off, I will say that I am generally against relationships at my age. So I have slightly liked this girl for a while but only recently developed stronger feelings. Because of a previous experience, I have promised myself not to get involved or even start down that path. And I have been successful at it. But before i commit myself to saying 'no' for the (forseeable) future, I would like to hear about what could options I would be crossing off as a result of this. It isn't an extremely intense liking, But it is really strong when I am around her and have nothing to occupy my mind. If I just say no to myself constantly, then it passes. I really want to get to know her better (prelude to going out), but have just told myself 'no' because of my thoughts on relationships in highschool.